Proof of Life Settings

Tell us how you would like to be contacted to confirm you're okay. If we don't hear from you, we'll notify your custodians to ensure your wishes are carried out.

Everything looks good

Last check-in confirmed Jul 30, 2026, 10:28 AM. One custodian has accepted and check-ins are running normally.

If a check-in is ever missed, we wait the delay period below, then notify your custodians — you can always confirm you're okay to cancel that at any time, even after custodians have already been notified.

Notification Methods

Choose how we should reach out to you.

Email Notifications

Receive a link via email

SMS / Text

Routine check-in reminders by text

Phone verified for SMS check-ins

Automated Call

A friendly check-in call (coming soon)

Pause Check-ins

Going away for a while? Pause check-in reminders and escalation until a date you choose — up to 90 days out.

Check-in Frequency

We'll send you a check-in notification every weekly.

Custodian Notification

How long should we wait if you don't respond before we contact your custodians?

After 3 days, your custodians will be notified.

How it works

  • 1

    Check-in Alert

    We send a notification based on your frequency setting.

  • 2

    Verification

    You click the link to confirm everything is okay. It takes 2 seconds.

  • 3

    Failed Response

    If you don't respond, we wait for your chosen delay period.

  • 4

    Custodian Notified

    Once time runs out, your custodians are notified to execute your final wishes.